Tuesday, December 31, 2013
New Year's Resolutions
Does this chart look familiar? D-I-E-T - does that word mean anything to anyone as they start the New Year?
Yes, I have been there and done that, year after year after year. This year however, I am taking a new approach. I will turn the big 5-0 this year. To celebrate that milestone, I plan to focus on my health - both physical and mental this coming year. I plan to be healthier in my 50's than I've been in my 30's or 40's. I have changed a lot of things in past couple of years but this year in particular, I am going to fully accomplish the goals I set for myself.
What are your resolutions and plans for 2014? Are you ready to join me in accomplishing them? Come on - together we can do it!
Monday, December 30, 2013
The Circle by Dave Eggers - A Book Club Reminder
Currently, the book club via this blog is reading The Circle by Dave Eggers. I wanted to remind you that we'll have a discussion about this novel next Monday, January 6th.
It's not too late to grab a copy and get started! It's an interesting read - at this point, I am really sucked into it and have maybe 150 pages to go. Please join us next week for a brief overview (no spoilers) and a hopeful discussion.
Thanks and have a great day!
Saturday, December 28, 2013
New Book Club Starting - Join Us!
For anyone living in Highlands County - Sebring, Avon Park or Lake Placid, we are starting a book club for the new year. There is an informational meeting:
If you can't make it to the meeting but would like more information, please leave a comment to this post and I will get back with you.
- When: Thursday, January 2nd
- Where: Beef O'Brady's (Highway 27, Sebring) in the back room
- Time: 6:00 PM
If you can't make it to the meeting but would like more information, please leave a comment to this post and I will get back with you.
Hope to see you there! Happy reading!
Friday, December 27, 2013
The Pieces of Our Lives
It's easier said than done, I know. But I'm willing to give it a shot!
There have been so many times in my life where I felt that I've been hung out to dry. I always get through the situation, but hardly ever as I imagined I would. Someone else drives the bus. I may not understand it at the time but come to later appreciate the experience and the outcome. God has a way of getting our attention, of changing our direction, and leading us where he wants us to go. I am both grateful and thankful that he hasn't given up on me. Things truly do happen for a reason.
Thursday, December 26, 2013
The Day After
Twas the day after Christmas
And all through the place,
You can actually move around
With all the reclaimed space.
The presents were unwrapped
Torn open with glee,
The contents exploding
For all the world to see.
A scrumptious dinner was prepared
Cooking at it's best.,
And now comes the day
That parents can rest.
All those decorations
Have a few days respite,
Before retuning to their boxes
Making the home clean and bright.
A new year is upon us
Coming fast and swift
Each day is a blessing
And yes, quite a gift.
You're blessed beyond measure
As this year comes to an end,
Supported and loved
By many a family and friend.
Enjoy the time remaining
That 2013 will bring.
For 2014 is upon us,
A New Year we will ring.
Wednesday, December 25, 2013
Tuesday, December 24, 2013
Monday, December 23, 2013
A Multitude of Blessings
As I sit here admiring my Christmas tree with its multitude of gifts beneath it, the weekend's sermon comes back to me. Yes, this is the season of celebration. It's a time of family, of baking, and cooking, and gift selections. It's a time of decorations and lights and parties. We open our wallets this time of year, more so than any other.
Sitting in church on Saturday evening listening to the sermon, I felt a little off kilter. Yes, this is the season of celebration and giving, but what about those families who are struggling to get through the day, let alone the season. When we pass by the Salvation Army bell ringers, do we make a bucket donation? Do we buy an extra children's gift to place in the collection box as we leave the store? Do we adopt a child's name off an Angel Tree or perhaps join a group selecting gifts for an entire family or a children's club? How about food? Do we volunteer our time and resources to assure these families can put a holiday meal on the table that they can enjoy together?
While we are busy celebrating with our loved ones, do we stop to think of the less fortunate in our communities? How are these folks spending their holiday? I was rather ashamed of myself Saturday when listening to the week's message. Yes, I have donated to the Salvation Army, I made cookies and delivered them to the small town businesses that I work with throughout the year and also to my friends and neighbors. Yes, I gave a donation to a server at a restaurant my mother and I lunched at the other day for a family in need (we were taking a break from our final stage of Christmas shopping). But all this wasn't enough. I am blessed beyond measure. I have everything I need. What about the families who don't?
We have a strip mall here located next to a Lowe's Home Improvement store. The road between the two is a place where the needy folks stand with their signs in hand - out of work; single mom needs help; trying to feed my family. I drive by these folks with my car loaded with one purchase or many -that I just made - and I find myself unable to look in their direction in case I make eye contact. Will they expect a hand out from me if they catch me looking in their direction?
Yes, some people take advantage of situations like this. Just like you, I could give my opinion on this but will refrain as this is not the platform for it. What I am trying to say is that maybe this time of year, that I am wrong. These folks with their signs and forlorn faces are people, plain and simple. They are people just like and and me and they deserve to be recognized. To be seen. To be acknowledged. Maybe their circumstances don't allow them a choice. Maybe whatever they collect that day is the only thing that puts food for their children on the table that evening. Maybe the days' collection helps to keep the power or water on for another day. Whatever their circumstance, who am I to judge?
Today, I am thankful that it is not me standing on the street corner with a sign in my hand. My celebration of the season has cultivated in an accumulation of gifts beneath the tree. My celebration of the season has allowed me to connect with others and give willingly. I am both grateful and thankful that I can help my community. And one day, if things change and I find myself in a different situation, I hope that my community will be a blessing in return. This is the season of love - love for a tiny king who will rise to save us all. Is there any better gift than that?
Saturday, December 21, 2013
Elf on the Shelf
This is priceless so I had to share!
I hope you at least got a little snicker out of this picture.
Only four days until Christmas.
I hope you enjoy them all.
Friday, December 20, 2013
Holiday Colors Abloom
This picture was taken at a small park in Kansas (you can see the snow in the front left corner). I love how the trees are reflected in the water. It's gorgeous and makes me miss the Midwest just the tiniest bit.
After dark this evening, we plan to take the dogs for a drive around town to view all the lights. I am looking forward to it. Hopefully, wherever you live, you'll take the time to do the same. There is something magical about the colors and the decorations. Like fireworks on the Fourth of July being a reminder of our country's founding, Christmas reminds us of our creator and the celebrated birth of a child who was destined to be the King of all King's.
Thursday, December 19, 2013
A Thank You to Our Armed Forces
To all of those in the military currently living on American soil or abroad, we salute you. We thank you for your faithful service and wish you a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.
It was a difficult time for us when my son was in the Army. He spent one Christmas in Iraq and another in Afghanistan. There weren't enough hours in the day to pray for his safety but God heard them all and sent him back to us safe and sound. Those were tough days indeed. For those of you who have family members serving, my heart and prayers go out to you and your loved ones. May each of you be blessed with God's peace and infinite love this holiday season.
Wednesday, December 18, 2013
No Space for a Christmas Tree?
This is a great idea. It's both creative and festive. Pick up some cheap picture frames, some paint, some wrapping paper, and the "Peace" lettering and you've got a simple but dynamic tree to hang on your wall. I may have to try this next year! It's very classy without taking up space that you don't have.
Tuesday, December 17, 2013
Healthy (and Easy) Christmas Themed Snack
Check these out...
It takes only four ingredients to make these little Santa guys: a grape, banana slice, a strawberry, and a mini marshmallow. Slide them in order onto a toothpick and you've got a fun and healthy snack. It's great for kids of all ages to make and consume! Serve them at home or take them to a party. They're sure to be a hit!
It takes only four ingredients to make these little Santa guys: a grape, banana slice, a strawberry, and a mini marshmallow. Slide them in order onto a toothpick and you've got a fun and healthy snack. It's great for kids of all ages to make and consume! Serve them at home or take them to a party. They're sure to be a hit!
Monday, December 16, 2013
The True Reason for the Season
Listen to CeeLo Green sing "Mary Did You Know" to this video created from scenes in The Bible mini-series that premiered earlier this year on the History channel. This is one of my all time favorite songs. I hope that you enjoy CeeLo's rendition and that the video speaks to you as it did to me. It truly puts the things of this world into focus.
May you and yours be blessed love and peace this holiday season and in the year to come.
Saturday, December 14, 2013
The Snowman Six-Pack!
Wow! Even snowmen work out!
A little humor today as I begin my holiday baking blitz. I will need to keep my abs in mind as all those cookies roll out of the oven hot and gooey! I hope you enjoy your weekend. I'll see you on the flip side.
Friday, December 13, 2013
Peace and Joy
I don't know why this picture makes me smile but it does. These animals are cute and cuddly and I just want to pick them up and hug each of them. They look like stuffed animals that lay on our children's or grand-children's beds. They ones they snuggle with at night or when they're sick or upset.
We all need little reminders of joy and peace, every day - not just through the holidays. I hope this picture makes you smile as well, and reminds you of the good things in your life.
Blessings of peace and joy to you this holiday season.
Thursday, December 12, 2013
Gingerbread Houses
Ha ha - this isn't what you were expecting, is it?!
Personally, I've never built a Gingerbread House. I see the kits on display every holiday season but always walk right on by them. I might try one if there weren't so many other things I have to accomplish during the month of December.
This Saturday I am planning a huge baking blitz - three different types of cookies plus two different types of fudge. Some of these will be boxed up to deliver as gifts to friends, family, and local businesses that we've worked with throughout the past year. Our bowling league is having a pot luck next week so I have to make more for that. Our church has asked for a supply of them so I will make more for them as well. With all that baking, who has time to build true Gingerbread Houses? If someone asks for one, I'll have to throw the above picture together and deliver it with a loving smile!
I hope all of your holiday planning and traditions are right on track. Enjoy the season!
Wednesday, December 11, 2013
Edible Mint Serving Tray
Turn mints into a serving tray!
Directions:
Arrange mints on a
cookie sheet lined with parchment paper and bake at 350 for 8-10 minutes. Let
completely cool at room temperature.
It's a great idea for a plate of cookies or holiday treats that you
don't have to get back.
'Tis the Season! Be sure to check back here for more simple ideas for your holiday entertaining, decorating, and gift giving.
Tuesday, December 10, 2013
Vanish by Tess Gerritsen - A Book Review
Vanish is the fifth book from Tess Gerritsen's Rizzoli and Isles series. Just as the books before it, it did not disappoint. Vanish was a fast paced story with many twists and turns.
It begins with Mila, a young girl from Russia, impressed upon that she could have a better life in America. Believing the new dream, she boards a plane that lands in Mexico. Finding herself as one among several other girls, they are loaded into a white paneled van and driven to the boarder. It's not a legal crossing but a rough one that leads them by foot over a rock and sand terrain, down through a dirty old river bed and up the opposite side to another van stopped and waiting for them. Instead of being welcomed into the free country they have come to believe in, they find themselves stripped and attacked, with one brave runner who ends up left behind lying on the sandy desert floor after taking two bullets for her efforts.
Meanwhile, Jane Rizzoli, now nine months pregnant, gives testimony in court to a crime case in front of a full jury. When the defendant claims police brutality and can't keep his mouth shut during her questioning, the judge demands that he be removed from her courtroom. Before that happens, all hell breaks loose and Rizzoli finds herself on sitting top of him, forcing his arms behind his back and into a pair of handcuffs, all the while leaking fluid onto him and the floor as her water breaks.
While this news is unbeknownst to Maura Isles, she finishes up a routine autopsy and heads to her office to dictate her notes. Unable to answer a question without confirming the it first, she heads to the refrigerator where the bodies from the days work await transfer. To her horror, she discovers the a young woman delivered earlier in the day is anything but deceased. She immediately dispatches an EMT team from the hospital across the street. By the time Jane Doe is delivered to the emergency room, she is awake and fighting for her life.
Over the course of the next few hours, Jane's labor is slow to start and she is sent down to the Diagnostic Imaging Center for a sonogram and Maura witnesses Jane Doe shoot a security guard who was trying to subdue her and is taken hostage by the woman. While Maura manages to escape, Jane Doe holes up in the Diagnostic Imaging Center with six hostages, including Jane.
While Maura and Gabriel Dean, Jane's husband, fight to understand what has happened, things unravel quickly. The Boston Police Department is forced to step aside as the FBI makes an appearance. When the perimeter is breached by a lone gunman, things heat up and nothing makes sense, especially when negotiations are denied and a undisclosed tactical team takes over. It's a messy situation as Maura and Gabriel race to find the answers that will free the hostages and save his wife and child.
There is much more to this story and I found myself sitting on the edge of my seat through parts of this book. The back story of Jane Doe is interspersed throughout the pages and you come to know her well. The characters were perfect and the plot excellent. Whether you're a fan of Rizzoli and Isles or not, it was a great read. This is another book I strongly recommend.
Monday, December 9, 2013
Easy Christmas Decorations
These are easy to make and look great! If I was still in a cold climate (basically anywhere North of Florida), I would definitely do this! If you try it, I'd love to hear from you. Please drop me a line in the comments of this blog post.
I'll keep posting ideas and tips for making your Holidays warm, fun, and inviting so check back often. You never know what interesting things you'll find. Have a great day!
I'll keep posting ideas and tips for making your Holidays warm, fun, and inviting so check back often. You never know what interesting things you'll find. Have a great day!
Saturday, December 7, 2013
The Crafty Side
It's been a long time since I've done any crafting, even scrap-booking. I used to do craft projects for Christmas every year. When the boys were young and involved in the PTA, I hosted the annual Christmas craft fair at their elementary school for several years. I even had a booth of my own!
I loved making Christmas presents. I felt they meant more than most store bought gifts. This year, I'm trying my hand at it again. It involves paint and screws and more paint but I think each gift will be appreciated upon receipt Christmas morning.
It you're a crafter - ka-noodles to you! If not, give it a try. Pick a small project and work your way up. It's fun, it's relaxing, and most of all, it's rewarding to see your recipients faces when they are gifted with your love. So dive in and have a good time! I know I am.
Friday, December 6, 2013
Yuletide Logs and Galoshes - Humor Under the Christmas Tree
I wanted to tell you a little story that happened some years ago. It was Christmas Eve, a magical time, for those two little boys of mine. They were three and five so the idea of Santa was very much alive. The presents were wrapped, dinner consumed, and Mass attended. As we arrived home, the boys headed to the tree, still dressed in their fancy Christmas clothes, and grabbed the two packages they knew they were allowed to open. Perhaps a small dose of disappointment crossed their little faces when they realized it was only a pair of new pajamas nestled within the brightly colored wrapping. It was tradition, those annual pajamas, so they would look sharp for the Christmas morning pictures.
Getting them to bed was no easy feat. Especially with my dad grumpily commenting that he didn't want reindeer poop on his roof and that he had his shotgun ready to shoot Old Saint Nick when he arrived. With worry etched on their faces, the boys set out milk and cookies as the rest of us assured them that we would not let anything happen to Santa and his sleigh. We got the boys settled into sleeping bags in the basement family room. My brother's room was nearby and he agreed to keep an ear on the situation during the night.
Once the boys had fallen to sleep, we grabbed a large burlap bag we had brought with us and stuffed all their presents from Santa into it, dropping it on the floor in front of the Christmas tree. My dad got one of his black galoshes out of the closet and stuck it into the fireplace insert, closing the door on it to keep it in place. We all went to bed giggling and tried to sleep, knowing we had to beat the boys up the next morning in order to witness their findings.
At seven o'clock, my brother woke the boys up, sending them running up the stairs to join us. The oldest went straight to the loaded burlap bag while the youngest honed right in on that boot stuck in the fireplace door. His eyes were as big as saucers when my dad announced that "I almost got that fat man!" My little boy grabbed that boot and held onto it tightly through the gift opening, breakfast, and play time afterward.
As we later loaded up the car in order to head to the next Christmas family function, my son still clung to that black boot. "I have to get this back to Santa," he told us with grave determination. My dad needed that galosh back as he used the set periodically but the only thing we could do was laugh. It was my mother who finally convinced her grandson that she would send it back to Santa as soon as we left. He finally gave up the boot, but the memory is forever etched into our brains.
I am now wondering what mischief my dad will accomplish this Christmas when my five-year-old grandson and family spend Christmas Eve night with them. It's sure to be another entertaining and memory-lasting holiday. The camera will be ready!
Thursday, December 5, 2013
22 Nice Things To Do This Christmas
by Asdfing Team (12/25/07)
This Christmas:
- Just close your eyes and leave your problems behind.
- Just take a long walk to the city.
- Just enjoy a glass of wine.
- Just think about your life.
- Just forgive yourself for the mistakes of the past.
- Just tell your kids a nice story.
- Just make dinner for your family.
- Just forgive someone that hurt you in the past.
- Just say you’re sorry to anyone you have hurt.
- Just give your loved ones the best present: yourself.
- Just host a party at your place and invite everyone you know.
- Just call your friends and tell them that you love them.
- Just send Christmas cards to people you haven’t spoken to for a long time.
- Just give your weird relatives a second (or third!) chance.
- Just smile back at a stranger.
- Just give some warm clothes to the homeless.
- Just visit a shelter for orphan kids and give them a hug.
- Just start believing in Santa Claus.
- Just use your talent to change the world.
- Just think of the world as a better place.
- Just make every moment count.
- Just live those moments.
Even though this was written six years ago, the list still applies to all of us. I hope you'll read the list a couple of times, pick some options out and actually do them. Spread your love this Christmas.
Wednesday, December 4, 2013
Wild-Eyed Innocence
I crawled into bed last night thinking about the wild-eyed innocence of youth, my youth in particular. Christmas was a time of wonder and excitement. The threat of being put on Santa's naughty list was something my brother and I avoided at all costs. When the toy bible's arrived (via the JC Penney and Sears winter catalogs) we would carry them around and study them at length. In those days, our family would drive out to the woods to pick out our own tree to cut down. At school we would make ornaments to hang on it, make gifts for our parents, and have Christmas parties to celebrate the season. (Yes, "Christmas" parties and each student brought a gift to exchange.)
The Christmas season was and is a magical time. Through the years it's come to mean different things to me. As a young child, it was about the excitement of Santa. As an older child it was about the presents. As a teenager, we went to Catholic Mass and I knew the story of Jesus' birth but it wasn't until that period of my life that I saw the history in action. As a young adult with children, the wonder and excitement of Santa rolled back around. My mother and I would take off one Friday at the beginning of each December to shop. We would spend the entire day wondering through stores with our lists in hand. We would fill her car with Santa's gifts that she would take home and leave in her closet until Christmas Eve.
We always spent Christmas Eve at my childhood home. (I don't think Santa even knew where we lived!) My mom and I would retreat to the bedroom in the afternoon and spend an hour or two wrapping all those gifts. My dad would deliver chilled glasses of Peppermint Schnapps to sip on while we worked. We would talk and laugh as we worked, and tell the little knockers on the other side of the door that we would be out soon. And when we did come out of the room, we carried a few packages with us, including the one gift they were each allowed to open on Christmas Eve - a new set of pajamas.
Those were great traditions. Ones that I see both of the boys carrying into their adult lives as husbands and parents of their own children. I may not get to play the role of Santa any longer but being a grandparent does not come without merits. In fact, mom and I are going shopping next week! We may not fill up a closet full of toys anymore, but we still talk and laugh and have a great time together. Isn't that what it's all about? Togetherness. Family. Love. Remembering the true reason for the season and being thankful for all that Jesus' birth entails. These are the important things, not the commercialism. We have to leave "Christ" in Christmas.
The Christmas season was and is a magical time. Through the years it's come to mean different things to me. As a young child, it was about the excitement of Santa. As an older child it was about the presents. As a teenager, we went to Catholic Mass and I knew the story of Jesus' birth but it wasn't until that period of my life that I saw the history in action. As a young adult with children, the wonder and excitement of Santa rolled back around. My mother and I would take off one Friday at the beginning of each December to shop. We would spend the entire day wondering through stores with our lists in hand. We would fill her car with Santa's gifts that she would take home and leave in her closet until Christmas Eve.
We always spent Christmas Eve at my childhood home. (I don't think Santa even knew where we lived!) My mom and I would retreat to the bedroom in the afternoon and spend an hour or two wrapping all those gifts. My dad would deliver chilled glasses of Peppermint Schnapps to sip on while we worked. We would talk and laugh as we worked, and tell the little knockers on the other side of the door that we would be out soon. And when we did come out of the room, we carried a few packages with us, including the one gift they were each allowed to open on Christmas Eve - a new set of pajamas.
Those were great traditions. Ones that I see both of the boys carrying into their adult lives as husbands and parents of their own children. I may not get to play the role of Santa any longer but being a grandparent does not come without merits. In fact, mom and I are going shopping next week! We may not fill up a closet full of toys anymore, but we still talk and laugh and have a great time together. Isn't that what it's all about? Togetherness. Family. Love. Remembering the true reason for the season and being thankful for all that Jesus' birth entails. These are the important things, not the commercialism. We have to leave "Christ" in Christmas.
Tuesday, December 3, 2013
The Circle by Dave Eggers - December's Book Club Pick
When Mae Holland is hired to work for the Circle, the world’s most powerful internet company, she feels she’s been given the opportunity of a lifetime. The Circle, run out of a sprawling California campus, links users’ personal emails, social media, banking, and purchasing with their universal operating system, resulting in one online identity and a new age of civility and transparency. As Mae tours the open-plan office spaces, the towering glass dining facilities, the cozy dorms for those who spend nights at work, she is thrilled with the company’s modernity and activity. There are parties that last through the night, there are famous musicians playing on the lawn, there are athletic activities and clubs and brunches, and even an aquarium of rare fish retrieved from the Marianas Trench by the CEO. Mae can’t believe her luck, her great fortune to work for the most influential company in the world—even as life beyond the campus grows distant, even as a strange encounter with a colleague leaves her shaken, even as her role at the Circle becomes increasingly public. What begins as the captivating story of one woman’s ambition and idealism soon becomes a heart-racing novel of suspense, raising questions about memory, history, privacy, democracy, and the limits of human knowledge.
I picked this novel because of its existence on several Best Books of 2013 lists. It looks to be a suspenseful read. Pick up a copy today and join us for a book club discussion on Monday, January 6th. I hope you'll join us!
Monday, December 2, 2013
Please Don't Tell by Elizabeth Adler - A Book Club Discussion
Please Don't Tell was a page-turner filled with several interesting characters. There was Fen Dexter, a 50-something aunt who's quiet life has settled her in a cottage nestled on a cliff high above the roaring ocean of Big Sur, a small community located between Carmel and San Francisco in California. Beside Fen is Hector, a Labrador she rescued twelve years earlier when she first bought the cottage. Her niece Vivian (Vivi) Dexter is an ER doctor in a large San Francisco hospital. Jane Cecelia (JC) Dexter is a wannabe pop star who is facing the fact that at twenty-eight, her dreams have slid out from beneath her leaving her lost, broke, and alone.
On top of the Dexter family, there is Alex Patcevich, a man who shows up at Fen's cottage on a dark, stormy night with a knife in hand, claiming to have wrecked his car into a tree at the top of her driveway. Doctor Ralph Sandowsky, a renowned psychiatrist and international speaker who holds a practice at the hospital. And Brad Merlin and Jerusalem (Jerry) Guiterrez, both Detectives with the San Francisco Police Department. And let's not forget Flyin', Brad's pink poodle sidekick.
After Alex arrives at Fen's cottage during the storm, bloody from a head injury and a knife in hand, she has to figure out if he's telling her the truth. Meanwhile, Vivian works to save a young female patient with life threatening injuries. When the woman is treated and sent up for emergency surgery, Vivi learns from Detective Merlin that she is the fourth victim left behind by a local serial killer. It's imperative that she remain alive.
While the always optimistic Fen decides that Alex Patcevich is who he says he is, she indulges in an evening of food, wine and conversation that leaves her quite smitten. Vivian, on the other hand, who has just broken up with her French fiance, finds herself with two dates before leaving her shift at the hospital. One with Dr. Ralph, and the other with Detective Merlin. Upon arriving at her apartment, she finds JC on her doorstep, clothes in hand with no place else to go.
I don't want to give you spoilers so I will say that this story takes off from here, each of the characters spiraling around each other, romance sparking, and all the while, a killer hides among them. As the puzzle pieces come together, you as the reader make your own conclusions. There is a climatic ending as well as new beginnings for some of the characters. I'll leave you to figure out which ones.
I found this to be an entertaining read and would recommend it. If you read the book, let me know your thoughts about it. Did you enjoy it? Did you figure out the plot before it unfolded on the pages? Would you read another Elizabeth Adler novel?
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